I’ve remained nothing
but completely positive about my situation and prospects even through
the darkest days of uncertainty and pain on this journey. I presume
that’s somehow part of my DNA, but I’m painfully aware that not
everyone feels like that. I’ve been enormously
helped with my attitude by inspiration close to home, my younger
brother Vincent. In 1971 a perfectly fit and healthy 17 year old
football playing lad was struck down by meningitis. First the doctors
didn’t think he’d live, then when it was clear he would, they
said it would probably be in a ‘vegetative’ state. However, with
nothing but his own determination to conquer adversity, he persevered
and ended up teaching at a local school to work one on one with
children with learning difficulties. He worked there for 25 years
until retirement, his Christian faith sustaining him throughout.
He achieved all this
despite being left completely blind, having a totally paralysed left
arm and partly paralysed left leg, all disabilities resulting from
the brain damage caused by meningitis. And since then he’s survived
more than 20 orthopaedic operations to correct problems caused by the
paralysis, including 5 knee operations, 2 major ankle operations,
hands, wrists, shoulders, legs and left toe amputations. I’ve never
ever heard him complain.
It’s clearly worked for
me having inspiration like that on my very doorstep, it’s allowed
me to focus on courage and fortitude whenever it’s been required,
and it’s worked for me. So even through the
darkest moments of my own personal journey, I’ve always
instinctively sensed and been able to concentrate on the light at the
end of my tunnel. And now I appear to be approaching the end of this
particular tunnel, what have I learned?
- Enjoy my family and friends more and surround them with as much love as I can
- Never take my health for granted and work harder to maintain it
- Help others whenever the opportunity arrives
- Do not leave this world with any regrets
- Fill every day with good memories, and be a bigger part of my friends memories
- Travel again to continue enjoying this beautiful planet we live on
- Don’t waste time on unnecessary things
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